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Male Orgasm Denial- Edging And Other Male Orgasm Tips

Male Orgasm Tip #1: Male orgasm denial (or Edging )- Learn to be confident when you're getting "close"

This male masturbation technique is an adaptation of the one described in Dr. Barbara Keesling's book, How To Make Love All Night.... And it teaches you how to get "close" without panicking and "blowing it".

Bonus! Practicing male orgasm tease and denial will not only increase your staying power, it will also greatly intensify your male orgasm.

Do Male Masturbation Technique #2 before attempting this male masturbation technique as this one requires more control.

Male Orgasm Tip #2: Increase your masturbation time

One of the main causes of quick male orgasms is that we've trained ourselves to be "quick-shooters" by setting a goal to come as soon as possible during masturbation.

This male masturbation technique asks that you try to double your masturbation time every week until you can easily jack off for 30 minutes or more (e.g. if you currently come within 1 minute, increase your male masturbation time to 2 minutes the first week, 4 minutes the following week and so on...)

First, divide your arousal into 10 distinct levels, where 1 is when you're just starting to get aroused and 10 is inevitable orgasm. Use this chart to help you understand (using an Endurance Jack may increase the realism of your practice time):

Arousal Level Signs/Arousal Level

  • No arousal whatsoever
  • Slight twinge at the base of your penis as you begin to get aroused
  • Slight twinge at the base of your penis as you begin to get aroused
  • Low, steady level of arousal. More than level 3 but to a point where you need to continue
  • You are getting into it and do not want to stop but you're not quite aroused enough to worry about ejaculation.
  • You are getting into it and do not want to stop but you're not quite aroused enough to worry about orgasm.
  • You're really into it. Your face is flushed and your heart is pounding. There's no stopping now!
  • You're really into it. Your face is flushed and your heart is pounding. There's no stopping now!
  • You're completely absorbed and approaching orgasm. On false move and...Orgasm!
  • Orgasm!!! - with or without ejaculation

The key to this male masturbation technique is to learn to stay in between levels 8 and 10 (without going to arousal level 10) by learning to peak from 8 to 9 and dropping your arousal level back down to 7 or 8. Here's an example:

A strong PC muscle is vital for it is the pc muscle that will help you control your arousal levels. Quickly squeezing your pc muscle is a "quick-and-dirty" way to reduce your arousal level. After enough peaking practice and a very strong pc muscle, you will no longer need to squeeze your pc muscle in order to control your arousal. You will have trained your body to automatically do it.

Level 2--(1 minute)-->Level 4--(3 minutes)-->Level 6--(5 minutes)-->Level 8--(2 minutes)--->Level 9--(2 seconds)-->Level 7--(1 minute)-->Level 8--(2 minutes)--->Level 9--(2 seconds)-->Level 7--(1 minute)-->Level 8--(2 minutes)--->...[more practice]...-->Level 10 (ORGASM).

The male masturbation technique of peaking teaches you to decrease your arousal when you're getting "close" (Level 9) instead of panicking to Level 10 (the point of no return).

Practice peaking every time you masturbate. Be patient with yourself. At first, you may go too far; but, soon you'll master this male masturbation technique and master your own orgasm...and Become a Great Lover.

Male Orgasm Tip #3: Do not orgasm every time:

This male masturbation technique may sound ridiculous but let me explain...You see, as men, we are goal-oriented. And so, when it comes to sex, we have a goal of orgasm.

This male masturbation technique will help you master your own male orgasm by "loosing-up" your need to orgasm; and in doing this, you'll find that you're free to just enjoy the ride without having an orgasm. This takes the focus off you onto your partner; ensuring that you're both fully satisfied.

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