Male Orgasm Tip #1: Male orgasm denial (or Edging )-
Learn to be confident when you're getting "close"
This male masturbation technique is an adaptation of the one described in Dr.
Barbara Keesling's book, How To Make Love All Night.... And it teaches
you how to get "close" without panicking and "blowing it".
Bonus! Practicing male orgasm tease and denial will not only increase your
staying power,
it will also greatly intensify your male orgasm.
Do Male Masturbation Technique #2 before attempting this male masturbation
technique as this one requires more control.
Male Orgasm Tip #2: Increase your masturbation time
One of the main causes of quick male orgasms is that we've trained ourselves
to be "quick-shooters" by setting a goal to come as soon as possible during
masturbation.
This male masturbation technique asks that you try to double your
masturbation time every week until you can easily jack off for 30 minutes or
more (e.g. if you currently come within 1 minute, increase your male
masturbation time to 2 minutes the first week, 4 minutes the following week and
so on...)
First, divide your arousal into 10 distinct levels, where 1 is when you're
just starting to get aroused and 10 is inevitable orgasm. Use this chart to help
you understand (using an
Endurance Jack
may increase the realism of your practice time):
Arousal Level Signs/Arousal Level
- No arousal whatsoever
- Slight twinge at the base of your penis as you begin to get aroused
- Slight twinge at the base of your penis as you begin to get aroused
- Low, steady level of arousal. More than level 3 but to a point where
you need to continue
- You are getting into it and do not want to stop but you're not quite
aroused enough to worry about ejaculation.
- You are getting into it and do not want to stop but you're not quite
aroused enough to worry about orgasm.
- You're really into it. Your face is flushed and your heart is
pounding. There's no stopping now!
- You're really into it. Your face is flushed and your heart is
pounding. There's no stopping now!
- You're completely absorbed and approaching orgasm. On false move
and...Orgasm!
- Orgasm!!! - with or without ejaculation
The key to this male masturbation technique is to learn to stay in between
levels 8 and 10 (without going to arousal level 10) by learning to peak
from 8 to 9 and dropping your arousal level back down to 7 or 8. Here's an
example:
A strong PC muscle is vital for it is the pc muscle that will help you
control your arousal levels. Quickly squeezing your pc muscle is a
"quick-and-dirty" way to reduce your arousal level. After enough peaking
practice and a very strong pc muscle, you will no longer need to squeeze your pc
muscle in order to control your arousal. You will have trained your body to
automatically do it.
Level 2--(1 minute)-->Level 4--(3
minutes)-->Level 6--(5 minutes)-->Level 8--(2
minutes)--->Level 9--(2
seconds)-->Level 7--(1 minute)-->Level 8--(2
minutes)--->Level 9--(2
seconds)-->Level 7--(1 minute)-->Level 8--(2
minutes)--->...[more practice]...-->Level 10 (ORGASM).
The male masturbation technique of peaking teaches you to decrease your
arousal when you're getting "close" (Level 9) instead of panicking to Level 10
(the point of no return).
Practice peaking every time you masturbate. Be patient with yourself. At
first, you may go too far; but, soon you'll master this male masturbation
technique and master your own orgasm...and Become a Great Lover.
Male Orgasm Tip #3: Do not orgasm every time:
This male masturbation technique may sound ridiculous but let me
explain...You see, as men, we are goal-oriented. And so, when it comes to sex,
we have a goal of orgasm.
This male masturbation technique will help you master your own male orgasm by
"loosing-up" your need to orgasm; and in doing this, you'll find that you're
free to just enjoy the ride without having an orgasm. This takes the focus off
you onto your partner; ensuring that you're both fully satisfied.
Male masturbation was a taboo topic a few centuries ago. But even today the clouds of mystery and dilemmas surrounds the word. Ask any woman and she'll tell you that virtually all males masturbate, but men still try to hide or cover up this fact. Statistics too have revealed that though it is less spoken about than orgasms and aphrodisiacs, male masturbation is a much-practiced sexual tradition. Then why is there still a nagging thought or haunting guilt for some people?
If you have been wondering whether masturbation is normal, lets put your fear to rest. Yes, your body was created for you to admire, love and nurture. Your body's purpose is to give you confidence and pleasure. It is absolutely normal to try and reach out and explore your body as a child or to practice regular masturbation as an adult. If you don't love your body and admire it, who will?
And if some of you guys have been wondering what religion has to say about male masturbation, well, I knew of a Sunday school teacher who taught the boys to understand that God would rather they make themselves happy than to suffer or hurt others. As long as you understand that masturbation or call it self-gratification, if you may, is a form of satisfying your urges, it is absolutely normal and safe. Wouldn't you rather caress your body than turn the pent up frustration into a misplaced passion?
And that's not all. Masturbation, especially male masturbation, has tons of added benefits (if the serene pleasure and orgasmic energy are not enough)! One of the nice things about being a proud, frequent masturbator is you don't need to feel bad about not having sex every other day. Sex is great when it's done well and when you're ready for it. But the truth is, male masturbation can go a long, long way toward making you an incredible, fully satisfied sex partner.
Virtually all males masturbate, though some more frequently than others. Male masturbation usually continues throughout adulthood, even when other forms of sexual activity are available. No wonder then that male masturbation has been directly linked to successful self-acceptance in men. You need to fully accept the fact that you masturbate and enjoy masturbation. If you enjoy masturbation, you enjoy your penis - and almost without exception, if you can get great enjoyment from your penis, then someone else can, too.
Besides giving you incredible pleasure even without another person being there, male masturbation is also a hit for increasing your staying power. Though we all know of the times when you must masturbate in the shower or the bathroom at school, but as a rule if male masturbation is performed patiently and technically, it can greatly help to hold ejaculation and increase orgasms. When you masturbate you don't necessarily need to do it for hours, but you should at least be getting a feel for how your body works, what gives you maximum pleasure, and what you can do to throttle back that pleasure when necessary. Such trained and pleasurable male masturbation can truly turn a miss into a hit for you!
There are a variety of male masturbation techniques. The simplest technique is to begin by simply squeezing the penis. Once the penis becomes semi-erect, stroking normally takes place, from tip to base. By concentrating at first on the base of the penis and avoiding the tip permits the erection to proceed and is a basic male masturbation technique for delaying ejaculation. And don't forget to use a good water based lubricant. Male masturbation without one can be rough and painful at times.
Some of the most common tools that men use for masturbation are a fantasy, pictures or videos for inspiration. With technology becoming the mantra for life, the Internet also offers a huge number of websites for information and ideas on male masturbation. Besides that phone sex is a great way for induction to male masturbation if you are a beginner. Since you are actually dealing with another person, without strings attached, there is a sense of reality and added pleasure. So just kick back, lube up, stroke yourself and let your mind wander in search of just the right fantasy to inspire a gut-wrenching, vocal-cord-searing orgasm.
Male Multiple Orgasm Swish Explained
Male Multiple Orgasm SWISH: Simply put, you use the NLP Kinetic Swish technique to help master male multiple orgasm.
The cue feeling (associated), for me: that “empty feeling that I begin to get after ejaculation. Choose your own.
The desired image (disassociated): a moving picture of me in High sexual excitement to the point where I feel the beginnings of a raging erection. But remember, the desired image MUST be disassociated.
For those of you that are not familiar with NLP (NeuroLinguistic Programming) nor the Swish method, here's the Male Multiple Orgasm Swish in detail.
Pay Attention! This multi-orgasmic male techniques can drastically reduce your resolution time (the time after an ejaculation where an erection is difficult to impossible). I reduced me resolution time from 30 minutes to less than 5 minutes after doing this the first time...
Multiple Male Orgasm Swish(tm) explained - no ejaculation control nor PC squeezes required
Before we get into the Male Multiple Orgasm Swish, let me first explain the Swish pattern:
The Swish Pattern is an NLP "mind exercise" used to change how your brain/ body responses to something that you see, hear or feel (the trigger).
The Swish Pattern Procedure:
- Create a close-up image of the stimulus. This should be a specific object or scene from the outside world. Since this will act as a trigger for the new behavior, it should be seen through the user's eyes (associated).
- Create a distant image for the desired response. You want to the user to move towards this, rather than experience it as if it were happening now, so it should be seen as through an outside observer's eyes (disassociated).
- Swish the two images - rapidly push the stimulus into the distance, and bring the desired response right up to the user's face. For effect, you can actually make a "swish" sound as the images pop into place.
- Allow the images to settle for a minute in their new places.
- Clear the user's mind or lead the user into a neutral state.
- Repeat steps 1 through 5 until any thought of the stimulus leads directly to the response.
For instance, if you habitually responded to the sight of blood by automatically feeling nauseous, you could use the Swish Pattern, by following the steps above, in this way:
- Create a close-up image of the stimulus. This should be a specific object or scene from the outside world. Since this will act as a trigger for the new behavior, it should be seen through the user's eyes (associated). Visualize a time when you saw blood and it started to make you nauseous.
- Create a distant image for the desired response. You want to the user to move towards this, rather than experience it as if it were happening now, so it should be seen as through an outside observer's eyes (disassociated). See an image of yourself, "over there", seeing the blood and feeling strong, healthy and relaxed.
- Swish the two images - rapidly push the stimulus into the distance, and bring the desired response right up to the user's face. For effect, you can actually make a "swish" sound as the images pop into place.
- Allow the images to settle for a minute in their new places.
- Clear the user's mind or lead the user into a neutral state.
- Repeat steps 1 through 5 until any thought of the stimulus leads directly to the response.
In this example, you are literally recoding your mind to response differently to the same trigger:
Old response: See blood (trigger) ---> Begin to see myself as weak and nauseous ---> Feel Nauseous
New Response (after Swishing): See blood (trigger) ---> See myself as strong, healthy and relaxed ---> Feel strong, healthy and relaxed
Get it? Swish can be used for any number of changes. It's a very powerful tool that I use over and over again...And, now it's yours.
Okay, you're now ready for the Male Multiple Orgasm Swish. We're going to follow the same steps except this time our trigger will be a feeling instead of an image. Remember, you can use an image, a sound or a feeling as your stimulus, whichever seems to trigger your response the strongest. For this Male Multiple Orgasm Swish example, we're going to use a feeling as the trigger:
- Re-experience the feeling (or image) that you get, right after ejaculation, that let's you know that your erection is about to go down. (For me, it's a feeling of "emptiness" in my balls. It's like a value was released and all the pressure had gone out.) This should be a specific feeling or image for you, something you experience in your body or through your own eyes (associated).
- Create a distant image (should be a small image at the corner of your mind) of you with a raging/ untamable erection . Remember, the image should be as if you were an observer looking at you "over there" in third-person (disassociated). This image should be so powerful and erotic that you begin to become aroused.
- Swish the two images - rapidly push the stimulus into the distance, and bring the desired response right up to the user's face. For effect, you can actually make a "swish" sound as the images pop into place.
- Allow the images to settle for a minute in their new places.
- Clear the user's mind or lead the user into a neutral state.
- Repeat steps 1 through 5 until any thought of the stimulus leads directly to the response.
After doing this Male Multiple Orgasm Swish 10 to 15 times, you will have drastically reduced your resolution time and be well on your well to experiencing multiple male orgasm with full-blown ejaculation.
